Loving yourself is not the same as being self-centred, it's not about being selfish. It has to do with placing the appropriate value upon your life that God has placed.
It's coming into agreement with Him, so our relationships with others are not affected by the way we see ourself. You are valuable, you are a special person, you are important to Him.
Keywords: self-esteem, personal growth, value, meditation, boundary, boundaries, truth, negative influences, demanding, standards, holiness, destiny, legacy, Encounters with God